The Gift of Taking

A workshop on pleasure-led touch and the Wheel of Consent

When we touch for our delight—clearly, transparently, and with consent—something magical happens: the body that is touched can sense our pleasure and begins to echo it. "Taking" becomes a gift that travels through two nervous systems at once.

In this workshop, we combine a tantric approach with therapeutic grounding. You will explore movement, self-touch, and being seen in a space with clear boundaries. Everything happens with respect, voluntarily and in line with your own boundaries.

The Gift of Taking zooms in on the "Taking" quadrant of the Wheel of Consent. Through slow, guided practice you will discover how to:

• Claim touch for your own enjoyment without apology
• Remain exquisitely attuned to the person you're touching
• Let your genuine pleasure be felt by another, so they receive it second-hand

Experience the pleasure of getting in touch with what you want with exercises that are simple and easy to follow, designed to show you where what you want turns into mutual nourishment.

What We Will Explore

• Owning Your Wanting
  Feel the purity of the wishes of your hands and let them guide your touch
• The Pleasure Feedback Loop
  Sense how the receiver's body mirrors your enjoyment and sends it back
• Consent
  Ask, feel, and change your mind—so everyone stays safe and present
• Trust Your Intuition
  Track nervous-system cues (yours and theirs) and adjust in real time

About Kilo

I am Kilo—certified tantra therapist, Wheel of Consent geek, and lover of slow, honest touch. My facilitation is warm, grounded, and agenda-free. I'm here to keep the container clear so you can explore with safety and curiosity.

About Andrea

I am Andrea—certified tantra therapist, trauma-informed coach, and guide in embodied self-discovery. I create a space where you can ground yourself in your body, calm your nervous system, and reconnect with what feels true. My work is a combination of tantra therapy, inner journeys/hypnosis, and potential psychology.

Booking & Contact

Join us for an afternoon where we will co-create an Island of Presence.

To book your spot, please respond Going on the Facebook event and use the button below to purchase your ticket.

Get Tickets

Contact us at kilo@islandofpresence.com or andrea@andreaaltier.com. We are happy to answer any questions.